Tuesday, June 30, 2009

Christian dating tips for Christians

As Christians we are expected to set an example of good standards and practices so that others who watch us or observe us can emulate and our actions can show to others that we practice what we preach.

As human beings, and as Christian singles, our bodies are in a battle every day. However we must not forget that we have been called to a higher standard of living than when we walked in our desires of the flesh. Apostle Paul wrote quite meaningfully in 1 Cor 6, verses 19-20 " Don't you know that your bodies are the temple of the holy spirit who lives in you and who was given to you by God? You do not belong to yourselves but to God. He bought you for a price so use your bodies for God's glory"

christian dating So it is not about our age. Young or old, the battle of our flesh is present in all of us and we must move against this battle and merge victorious in the eyes of God. Especially when we are dating . We must respect God's word and also respect the person with whom we are dating.

In this area, we thankfully got help. The help comes from the holy spirit who guides us and we know that Jesus has overcome the world! We don't have to face the battle all on our own. We are not alone in this war

Listed as under, you will find some very easily practicable dating tips which you can apply for dating. For some these dating tips may seem a bit impractical and too strict to follow, but when followed you’ll find that you end up with a beautiful relationship which has the promise of a lifetime and there can be no regrets with such a clear and clean approach to dating.

We don’t want to spend a great deal of time on some of the more obvious dating tips, but we thought these should be mentioned none-the-less. These first six items are really basic and somewhat laughable, but when it comes to dating, some guys self-destruct before leaving their home.  So here are some well tested dating tips (mainly for the guys) that should happen whether you are going out with a woman or just going out with your family.

  • (1) Present yourself nicely. Dress well and wear well ironed clothing. Your dress sense makes a lot of impact
  • (2) make sure you are well groomed and that your hair is well combed to complement your personality
  • (3) Make sure you have a pleasant odour. Brush your teeth and if there is any doubt of a bad odour, it is advisable to chew some mouth fresheners before the date.
  • (4) Spray a deodorant or any good perfume so that you smell good. It can also take care of your sweat and bad odour
  • (5) make sure that your attitude and the articles that you handle are clean and if you are  driving by car, do ensure that your car is clean and neat.
  • (6) Relax yourself and do not panic for anything. Try to be humorous but if not do not put on an extra humorous approach. try to be normal at best.
  • (7) Do not speak ill of others to your date. At best speak little of others and do not be critical of someone unnecessarily
  • (8) Do not propose on your first date. be friends first. Proposal will follow automatically
  • (9) Do not fondle and kiss on your date. Keep it as a suspense gift for your partner on your wedding day
  • (10) Show care and concern for your date right from the strict, with simple things of life.

These tips are known to work according to the experience of people who have been dating religiously and they are the testimony that these things work best.

Here for your dating partner, I would like to recommend  "Christiandatinginfo.com" which is a good website to reach out to your partner and get your first date.

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