Remember the break up is a painful moment and therefore it is not the time to bring up all the things she erred upon. Those habits might be annoying habits which may have catalyzed the break-up but the person will be better off not to hear more criticisms attributed to her on such a hard day. If those things had really affected your relationship you should have been good enough to have told them to her earlier when the relationship was in better times.
You must have heard it earlier from people that breaking up is the hard part to do. And surely they weren't kidding about it. It's naturally hard to express to someone that your feelings have changed and you don’t feel the same anymore, However it is always sensible to do it in a way that causes the minimal of pain possible.
The important thing to remember in this whole thing is not to delay the breakup once you have made up your mind about it. The moment you know that you are not in it, the most sensible thing to do is is avoid it and keep the relationship from going deeper and cut things off quickly instead of misleading the girl.
You must have heard it earlier from people that breaking up is the hard part to do. And surely they weren't kidding about it. It's naturally hard to express to someone that your feelings have changed and you don’t feel the same anymore, However it is always sensible to do it in a way that causes the minimal of pain possible.
The important thing to remember in this whole thing is not to delay the breakup once you have made up your mind about it. The moment you know that you are not in it, the most sensible thing to do is is avoid it and keep the relationship from going deeper and cut things off quickly instead of misleading the girl.
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